When it comes to planning a wedding, one of the most important aspects is the event timeline. This is necessary to keep everybody on schedule and make sure nothing gets lost in the shuffle. Here at Aura we understand the importance of preparation. That’s why we have our own online planning forms for you to use with the specific times that we need to know. On your wedding day we will try our best to hit these specific events at the specific times. However, we approach the entire day with a commitment to flexibility, because we know many things can run late (or early) during the actual event.
How long is a typical wedding?
A standard wedding is going to last about 5 to 6 hours. Some run longer, and a few are on the shorter side, with the difference usually depending on the number of people that you have at your wedding. The more guests, the harder it can be to get them through all the events, such as dinner, toasts, cocktail hour, and more.
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60 minutes - 90 minutes
A wedding ceremony is a formal event that celebrates the union of two individuals in marriage. It is typically conducted by an officiant, such as a minister, priest, or judge, and is attended by family members and friends of the couple.
The wedding ceremony usually begins with the processional, where the wedding party enters the ceremony venue in a specific order. This is followed by the entrance of the bride, who is usually escorted down the aisle by her father or another significant person in her life.
Once the bride has reached the altar, the officiant welcomes the guests and begins the ceremony by giving a brief introduction and explanation of the significance of marriage. The couple may then exchange vows, promising to love, honor, and cherish each other for the rest of their lives.
Following the vows, the couple may choose to exchange rings as a symbol of their commitment to each other. The officiant may also give a brief sermon or reading, and the couple may choose to incorporate special music or readings into the ceremony.
The wedding ceremony typically concludes with the pronouncement of the couple as married and the presentation of the newlyweds to their guests. The wedding party then exits the ceremony venue in a recessional, often accompanied by celebratory music and applause.
Overall, a wedding ceremony is a beautiful and meaningful event that celebrates the love and commitment between two individuals. It provides a memorable and joyous start to a couple's life together as they embark on their journey as husband and wife.
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20 minutes - 60 minutes
The wedding cocktail hour is a time for guests to unwind and mingle with each other after the ceremony while the wedding party takes photos. It's typically held in a separate area, such as a terrace or a lounge, and lasts for about an hour.
During the cocktail hour, guests are usually offered drinks and appetizers, which can range from light snacks to more substantial hors d'oeuvres. This is a great opportunity for guests to socialize and get to know each other while enjoying delicious food and drinks.
The cocktail hour is also a chance for the couple to make a grand entrance into the reception venue. This can be done in various ways, such as being introduced by the DJ or walking down a grand staircase. The couple can use this moment to set the tone for the rest of the reception and create a memorable first impression.
Some couples also like to incorporate entertainment into the cocktail hour, such as a live band or a photo booth. This can add an extra element of fun and excitement, and create even more opportunities for guests to interact with each other.
Overall, the wedding cocktail hour is a great way to kick off the reception and create a festive and welcoming atmosphere for guests. It's a chance to relax and enjoy each other's company before the real party starts!
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5 minutes - 10 minutes
The wedding grand entrance is a memorable moment that sets the tone for the reception and gets guests excited for the celebration to come. Typically, the grand entrance features the wedding party and the newlyweds making their way into the reception area to the cheers of the guests.
The wedding party usually enters the reception area in a specific order, starting with the bridesmaids and groomsmen, followed by the maid of honor and best man, and finally the newlyweds. Each couple or individual can be announced by a DJ or MC as they enter the reception, creating a sense of anticipation and excitement for the guests.
The wedding grand entrance can be made even more special with creative touches such as props, balloons, or confetti cannons. Couples can also choose to choreograph their entrance to a specific song or dance routine, adding a fun and unique touch to the event.
Overall, the wedding grand entrance is a great opportunity for the couple and their wedding party to make a statement and kick off the reception in style. It's a moment that everyone will remember for years to come and a great way to start the celebration of love and unity.
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5 minutes - 10 minutes
In many cases, your first dance will begin after your Grand Entrance. Alternately, you can wait until after dinner is served.
The wedding first dance is a special moment for the newlyweds to share together and with their loved ones. This is one of the most anticipated moments of the reception.
The first dance is typically a slow, romantic song, chosen by the couple in advance. The couple may take dance lessons beforehand to prepare for this moment, or they may opt for a more casual and spontaneous dance.
As the couple takes the dance floor, all eyes are on them. This is a moment for them to connect and share a private moment together while surrounded by their loved ones. It's a symbol of their commitment and love for each other, and it often brings tears to the eyes of the guests.
The first dance is also a chance for the couple to show off their style and personality. Some couples opt for a traditional waltz or a slow dance, while others may choose a more modern or upbeat song and choreograph a fun and playful dance.
After the first dance, the couple may invite their parents to join them on the dance floor for a special parent dance. This is another emotional and meaningful moment that celebrates the bond between parents and children.
Overall, the wedding first dance is a beautiful and unforgettable moment that marks the start of the celebration and sets the tone for the rest of the evening. It's a moment that the couple and their guests will cherish for years to come.
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5 minutes - 10 minutes
A welcome speech at a wedding is a great way to thank all the guests for being a part of the couple's special day. The speech can be delivered by the couple themselves or their parents, depending on the preference of the couple. The welcome speech usually takes place at the beginning of the reception, after the wedding party makes their grand entrance.
In the speech, the couple or the parents can express their gratitude to the guests for coming to the wedding and being a part of this special moment. They can also thank their families and friends for their love, support, and guidance throughout their lives.
The welcome speech is a great opportunity for the couple or the parents to share personal stories or anecdotes about their relationship, the proposal, or the planning process. This can help create a more intimate and personal atmosphere and help the guests feel more connected to the couple.
Finally, the welcome speech can end with a toast to the newlyweds, wishing them a happy and long-lasting marriage. It's also a great time to encourage the guests to have a good time, dance, and celebrate the love of the couple.
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45 minutes - 90 minutes
Typically, dinner should be scheduled for approximately 45 minutes to an hour and a half. The dinner is a formal, sit-down event with guests seated at designated tables. The menu may feature various courses, including appetizers, salads, entrees, and desserts, and may be plated or buffet-style, based on the couple's preference and the venue's offerings.
Our Emcee will announce when it is time for individual tables to get in line for dinner. This information will be included in our planning forms. The start time of dinner will depend on factors such as the catering company's readiness and the number of guests.
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15 minutes - 60 minutes
Wedding speeches and toasts are an essential part of any wedding celebration. They are an opportunity for close family members, friends, and loved ones to express their feelings and share their memories and well wishes for the newly married couple.
Typically, there are three main speeches given during a wedding reception. The first speech is usually given by the father of the bride or a close family member, welcoming the guests and expressing their joy and pride in their daughter's marriage. The second speech is usually given by the groom, who thanks the guests, expresses his love for his new bride and shares his excitement for their future together. Lastly, the best man or maid of honor gives a speech, reflecting on their friendship with the bride or groom, sharing funny stories and anecdotes, and wishing the couple a lifetime of happiness.
In addition to these formal speeches, there are also toasts given throughout the night, often in celebration of the newlyweds. Guests may raise their glasses to the happy couple, offering words of congratulations, or may give a toast to the bride or groom individually.
Whether funny, sentimental, or heartfelt, wedding speeches and toasts offer a unique opportunity for loved ones to express their love and support for the newlyweds and help create a memorable and joyous celebration.
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15 minutes
The cutting of the wedding cake is one of the most iconic and anticipated moments of any wedding reception. This tradition represents the first task the newlyweds undertake together as a married couple, and it symbolizes their commitment to sharing their lives and experiences with each other.
The wedding cake cutting usually takes place after the meal and speeches. The newlyweds typically stand side by side, with the cake displayed in front of them. They will then take a knife together, and with a bit of pomp and circumstance, cut into the cake.
The first slice of cake is often fed to each other, representing their commitment to sharing everything in life, including food. The couple may also take a few moments to pose for photographs with the cake, capturing this special moment to cherish for years to come.
In addition to being a significant moment for the newlyweds, the cutting of the wedding cake is also an opportunity for the couple to share their love and gratitude with their guests. The cake is usually served to the guests as dessert, and the newlyweds will often take the time to thank their guests for sharing in their special day.
Overall, the cutting of the wedding cake is a beautiful and meaningful tradition that adds to the joy and celebration of the day. It's a symbol of the commitment the newlyweds have made to each other and an opportunity for them to share their love with those closest to them.
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10 minutes
Wedding games are a fun and interactive way to entertain guests and create a lively and festive atmosphere during a wedding reception. These games can be simple and straightforward or more complex and elaborate, depending on the preferences of the couple and their guests.
One popular wedding game is the shoe game, where the bride and groom sit back to back and swap one of their shoes with each other. Then, the host will ask a series of questions about the couple, and they will answer by holding up the shoe that represents their answer. This game is always a crowd-pleaser and can be a great way for guests to learn more about the newlyweds.
Regardless of the game chosen, the goal is always the same: to create a fun and enjoyable experience for guests to remember for years to come. Wedding games can be a great way to bring guests together, encourage interaction, and create a lively and festive atmosphere that enhances the joy and celebration of the day.
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10 minutes - 20 minutes
I usually advise my clients to plan 10 - 20 minutes for special dances, including the first dance (if not performed before dinner), father-daughter dance, and mother-son dance.
The songs for these dances can be played and cut off at specific times. Couples often select a 5-6 minute song for the special dances, which can be shortened by the DJ at a specific time if necessary. It's important to discuss which songs need to be shortened and where they should be cut to avoid any confusion on the wedding day. The length of a song should not be the sole factor in deciding which one to choose for the special dances; a typical slow dance at a wedding should be 1-3 minutes long.
Wedding special dances are a traditional and sentimental part of any wedding celebration. These dances provide the perfect opportunity for the newlyweds, their families, and friends to come together and share a moment of joy and celebration.
The first dance is typically the most important and symbolic dance of the evening. This dance usually takes place after the newlyweds are introduced as a couple and usually follows the cutting of the wedding cake. The couple will typically dance to a romantic song of their choice and may choose to take dance lessons to ensure a smooth and elegant performance.
Following the first dance, the father-daughter dance typically takes place. This dance is a touching moment between the bride and her father and symbolizes the love and bond between them. The song choice for this dance is often a sentimental and emotional one, and guests will often shed a tear or two during the performance.
The mother-son dance is another traditional wedding special dance, where the groom dances with his mother. This dance represents the love and respect between a mother and her son and is also a touching moment for guests to witness.
In addition to these traditional special dances, some couples choose to include other special dances, such as a grandparent-grandchild dance or a dance between siblings. These dances are a beautiful way to honor and celebrate the close relationships that exist within families.
Overall, wedding special dances are a beautiful and sentimental tradition that helps create a memorable and joyous celebration. These dances provide the perfect opportunity for the newlyweds and their families to come together and celebrate their love and commitment to each other.
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60 minutes - 90 minutes
For most couples I tell them to plan for somewhere between 1 to 2 and 1/2 hours of open dancing. However, on the wedding day, this may vary depending on how the other events align with the original timeline. Any remaining time can be devoted to the dance party. This is when we’ll play your requested dance songs.
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5 minutes - 10 minutes
The last dance at a wedding is typically the final song played before the reception ends. It is a special moment when the newlyweds and their guests come together for one last dance to cap off the celebration. This dance is often fast-paced and upbeat, allowing guests to let loose and have fun. It is a time to reflect on the joyous moments shared throughout the evening and to express gratitude for the love and support of friends and family. The last dance is an opportunity to create a lasting memory and to bid farewell to guests as they depart from the celebration.
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5 minutes - 15 minutes
Now it's time to say goodbye. We will usher everyone into the foyer or onto the steps outdoors so that as you make your grand exit from the reception, friends and family can blow bubbles, light sparklers, or toss confetti—and cheer for your successful celebration and future together.
5 Reasons Why Your Wedding Timeline is Important
As wedding planners, we understand that there are countless details to consider and plan for when it comes to your big day. One of the most crucial aspects is creating a wedding timeline. Many couples might overlook its importance or underestimate its impact on the overall success of their wedding. However, a well-thought-out wedding timeline is crucial for several reasons:
1. Smooth Transition of Events: A wedding timeline serves as a roadmap for your entire day, ensuring a seamless flow of events. It allows you to allocate specific time slots for each activity, such as the ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, speeches, and dancing. By following the timeline, you avoid delays, confusion, or guests waiting for prolonged periods between different events.
2. Maximizing Efficiency: With a well-structured timeline, you can optimize your vendor's efforts and get the most out of your wedding day. From the setup of decorations and catering to photography and entertainment, a clear timeline helps vendors plan their activities accordingly, increasing overall efficiency and reducing any last-minute stress.
3. Guest Experience: A thoughtful wedding timeline ensures your guests have an extraordinary experience. By incorporating appropriate breaks, you keep them engaged and entertained throughout the day. Additionally, when guests are aware of the schedule, they can plan their arrival and departure times, ensuring they don't miss any important events or feel left out.
4. Photography and Videography: Your wedding day is filled with priceless moments that you'll want to cherish forever. A well-planned timeline ensures your photographer and videographer capture all those special moments. By providing them with a timeline, they can anticipate important events and allocate sufficient time for key shots, whether it's the first look, family portraits, or candid moments during the reception.
5. Stress Reduction: Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, and the abundance of small details can increase stress levels. However, a well-structured timeline acts as a stress-reliever by streamlining the day's proceedings. You and your partner can relax and enjoy each moment, confident that everything is unfolding exactly as planned.
At Aura DJ Services, we understand the significance of a well-crafted wedding timeline. Our experienced team can work closely with you to design a tailored timeline that meets your vision, expectations, and keeps your wedding day running smoothly. Trust us to create the perfect schedule, ensuring that your special day is truly unforgettable.
Wedding Games
Make your wedding day even more memorable with fun and engaging games that will entertain your guests. Our DJ Services team is here to provide you with a list of exciting games that will keep everyone entertained throughout the celebration. Whether you're looking for icebreakers, interactive activities, or group competitions, we've got you covered. Browse through the following game ideas and let the festivities begin!
Wedding Trivia Game: Create trivia questions about the couple and their relationship, and have guests compete to see who knows them best. The winners can receive a prize or special recognition during the reception.
Shoe Game: Have the bride and groom sit back to back while each holds one of their own shoes and one of their partner's shoes. The host asks a series of questions about the couple, and they raise the shoe that corresponds to their answer, leading to fun and surprising moments.
Musical Chairs: Bring some nostalgia to the reception by playing a classic game of musical chairs. Arrange chairs in a circle, play lively music, and have the guests dance around. When the music stops, the guests scramble to sit on the available chairs, and anyone without a seat is eliminated. Repeat until there's a final winner.
Dance-Off Competition: Get everyone on the dance floor with a lively dance-off competition. Divide the guests into teams or pairs and let them showcase their moves. Have a panel of judges or let the crowd decide the winners. Provide small prizes or certificates for the best dancers. This game is sure to create an energetic atmosphere and keep the party going!
Shoe Game Questions
Who wakes up first in the morning?
Who takes the longer shower?
Who spends the most time getting ready to go out
Who is more into their looks?
Who is the biggest flirt?
Who is the more serious person?
Who is more creative?
Who is the jokester?
Who is more outgoing?
10.Who is more likely to get injured?
11.Who made the first move?
12.Who said “I LOVE YOU” first?
13.Who’s the better cook?
14.Who has the wackiest family?
15.Who’s the better driver?
16.Who’s the faster driver ?
17.Who spends more money?
18.Who is in control of the checkbook?
19.Who wears the pants in the family?
20.Who is always right?
21.Who is in charge of the remote?
22.Who is more organized?
23.Who will be doing most of the yard work?
24.Who is more likely to take care of a spider in the house?
25.Who is better at keeping secrets?
26.I you haven’t already… Who is most likely to pass gas in front of the other first?
27.Now that you’re married, Who will be the first to say… “not tonight”.
28.Who’s the better kisser?
29.Who likes to show their affection the most?
30.Who will be the first to fall asleep tonight?
31.Who has the smelliest feet?
32.Who steals the cover’s more ?
33.Who’s most likely to get lost?
34.Who’s most likely to ask for directions?
35.Who’s the most likely to wake up grumpy in the morning ?
36.Who’s most likely to be running late?
37.And finally… Who do you love the most in the whole wide world?
Bride & Groom Trivia Questions
1. Where did the bride and groom meet?
2. Where was their first date?
3. How long have they been dating?
4. When did the bride and groom kiss for the first time?
5. Where and how did the proposal take place?
6. Where are they going on their honeymoon?
7. How many pets do they own, what type, what are their names?
8. When did the bride and groom’s parents meet for the first time?
9. What is the bride and groom’s nicknames?
10. How many siblings to the bride and groom have?
11. What was the first weekend getaway or vacation they have taken together?
12. Who picked the engagement ring?
13. What are the middle names of the bride and groom?
14. What is the bride and groom’s favorite sport?
15. How many kids to the couple plan on having?
16. What was the first job in their life?
17. What college did they attend , what major?
18. Who does all of the cleaning where they live together?
19. Who travelled the furthest to get to the wedding?
20. What is the couples favorite style of music? Dance?
21. What is the couples favorite drink?
22. What is the couples favorite food?
23. What is the couples favorite color?
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